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Understanding other people

Understanding that people can believe something untrue

Most children come to understand that someone can believe something that isn't true somewhere between about 3 and 6 years, often around 4 to 5. In five very different countries, about half of 4-year-olds and most 5-year-olds understood it.

How sure are we?

Fairly sure. Studies in eight countries agree, but they all tested children the same way, with simple acting-out games. How we know this

What it’s a sign of

Your child is learning that what people do depends on what they believe, even when it's wrong, which helps with understanding others, surprises and secrets.

If you’re worried about your child, talk to your child and family health nurse or GP.

Last checked 2 November 2026