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Recognising themselves in a mirror

In many Western studies, toddlers start recognising themselves in a mirror (for example touching a mark on their own nose) in their second year. But in some countries far fewer children pass this test, even at 4 or 5.

We haven't yet found studies that measured the age when most children start. The sections below say what is known.

How sure are we?

Researchers disagree. Studies in different countries found very different results, and researchers disagree about what the mirror test shows. How we know this

What it’s a sign of

Your child is developing a sense of themselves as a person others can see.

If you’re worried about your child, talk to your child and family health nurse or GP.

Last checked 2 November 2026